30-Day House Cleaning Challenge: Days 1-30

30-Day House Cleaning Challenge at The Abundant Wife: Lots of Before & After Photos!

During the month of April 2013, I participated in a 30-Day Cleaning Challenge led by Money Saving Mom as she followed this Fresh & Organized Printable.  If you’d like to try it too, you can find all of my posts (with lots of BEFORE and AFTER photos!) here.

What are you doing to get your home ready for the holiday season?

A Pumpkin Story

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Once upon a time a young wife bought two pumpkins, one for a Halloween costume, and the other to cook.

One year later, her parents decided to buy her three very large pumpkins from the Pumpkin Patch.  Most of those pumpkins ended up on the compost pile.

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Well, that compost pile grew, and grew, and grew.

Thanks to those nine compost garden pumpkins, the young wife no longer needed to purchase pumpkins.

A Pumpkin Story by The Abundant Wife (With 12 Links to Pumpkin Fun!)

Her young family had more than enough seeds to eat (and re-plant!) and an entire freezer full of pumpkin puree.  She began to remember some of her favorite pumpkin recipes.

She also began to brainstorm new pumpkin recipes.  Pumpkin Pie?  Pumpkin Soup?  The possibilities were endless!

What are your some of your favorite pumpkin recipes?

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30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Days 1-30

30 Days of Prayer

From September 19, 2013 to October 29, 2013, I walked around and prayed for our local high school.  My husband does youth ministry there, so I also prayed for him and the team of people who work with him to share Jesus Christ with those students.  I walked for 30 days, Monday to Friday, alone or sometimes with my children in tow.  If you missed this series, you can catch up here!

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 1 Thanksgiving

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 2 Adoration

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 3 Confession (Most Popular Post in this Series)

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 4 Supplication

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 5 The Great Artist

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 6 Scripture

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 7 The Secular World

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 8 Making a Habit

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 9 Love Your Neighbor

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 10 A City on a Hill

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 11 Too Deep for Words

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 12 No Greater Joy

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 13 Life Interrupted

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 14 Failure

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 15 Talking vs. Praying

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 16 Perseverance

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 17 A Cord of Three Strands

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 18 Praying for Your Husband

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 19 Pray Without Ceasing

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 20 From the Depths of Woe

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 21 All the Poor and Powerless

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 22 Oops!

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 23 God and Money

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 24 Insecure, Foolish, and Undignified (Featured on “I Don’t Have A Clue…”)

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 25 Walking in Darkness (Sparks Middle School Shooting)

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 26 Father Abraham

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 27 Ask, Seek, and Knock

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 28 Seek and Find

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 29 Grace for the Moment

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 30 Transformed

As I created this list, I realized I missed Day 22!  It looks like I’ll have to go out and pray one more time for our local high school students.  Will you join me?

(Today I’m linking up with Works for Me Wednesday!)

The Abundant Wife’s Recipe Index

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In order to make it easier for you to locate recipes on The Abundant Wife, I’ve created this Recipe Index!  Many of my recipes come from the Simply in Season Cook Book or Supercook.com, but many also come from family, friends, or the Internet.  Bon Appetit!

Preparing Food

Breakfast

Entrees

Sides

Desserts

Fun Stuff (Photos Only–Follow Links to Recipes)

35 Ideas for Saving Money as a Stay-at-Home-Mom

35 Ideas

After four years of teaching art, and two years of teaching English in China, I became a Stay-at-Home-Mom in 2009.  I’ve had to learn a lot about saving money as a SAHM since then!  If you’re a new mom, or are considering staying at home with your children, I’ve compiled a list here of some of the things we have tried.  I would not attempt everything on this list at once, or you’ll be overwhelmed!  Choose one or two things at first, and see if they work for you.  If they work for you, then great!  If they don’t work for you, forget about it and try something else.  The last five items on this list might not save you money directly, but they are good for your finances nonetheless!

1. Cloth Diaper your Children (Cloth Diapering 101: Part 1 and Part 2)

2. Hang your Clothes Out to Dry (Life Without a Dryer)

3. Become a One Vehicle Family (Life Without a Second Car)

4. Plant a Garden (Our Compost Garden Harvest, Our Carrot Crop, Our Compost Garden Runneth Over, Free Flowers, Our Compost Garden: The Harvest, Our Compost Garden)

5. Meal Plan (Meal Planning on a Budget: Part 1 and Part 2)

6. Cook from Scratch (Food, Cookbook Review: Simply in Season, How to Cook a Jack-O-Lantern Pumpkin, Homemade Frappuccino)

7. Use What You Have (How to Be Generous When You’re Just Scraping By, Get Your Home Guest-Ready in 30 Minutes or Less, Liquid Gold)

8. Try Freezer Cooking (Freezing Lemon Juice and Lemon Slices, Freezer Cooking: Burritos, Freezer Cooking for a Vacation, 10 Things I Learned from my First Attempt at Freezer Cooking)

9. Read Books (Finding Time to Read, 7 Ways to Find Inexpensive Books, 8 Financial Books for Beginners, Free Books!)

10. Give your Children Simple Toys and Activities to Do (Paper Bag Play, Homemade Play-Doh, Legos, Leaf Rubbings, Frugal Bathtime Fun, 3 Jack-O-Lantern Crafts for Halloween, Butcher Paper Drawing, Toothpicks and Marshmallows, 20 Frugal Field Trips, Pancake Names, Celebrating Birthdays on a Budget, Homemade Play-Dough, Face Painting, DIY Finger Paints, Orange Tree Painting, Milk, Food Coloring, and Soap Experiment, Animal Magnets, Easy “Gingerbread” House, Birthday Pancakes, 10 Fun Things to Do Outdoors, Glow Sticks in the Bathtub, Chores for Toddlers, How Can I Find Free Activities in My Town?  Free and Easy Toddler Toys, A Frightfully Frugal Halloween, Oatmeal Container Straw Game, Sidewalk Chalk Outlines, Autumn Tree Paiting, Naomi’s Box-of-Fun, Counting with Toddlers, Free night at the Carnival, Our 4th of July Stay-Cation, Weekly Staff Party, 10 Rainy Day Activities for Toddlers, Five Years of Frugal Halloweens, All Things Pumpkin, 15 Frugal Activities for Autumn, Hammer Time, Coloring with my Kids, Folding Clothes, Washing Dishes)

11. Make Homemade Gifts (A Painted Box for Kristy’s Birthday, DIY Handprint Flowers, My Surprise Birthday and Valentine’s Day Gift, Homemade Christmas Cards)

12. Shop Around (3 Ways We’ve Saved Money Recently, How to Save on Phone, Internet, and Cable Services, 3 Ways We’ve Lowered Our Utility Bill, Yard Sales 101, My First Craigslist Purchase, 7 Items at Old Navy for $17!  7 Tips for Appealing your Medical Bills, How to Get a Good Deal on Towing Your Car, How to Find Inexpensive Greeting Cards On-Line, How to Get at Good Price for Tires, Check the Blogs Before You Shop, Inexpensive Laundry Detergent, A Unique Phone Call from Verizon, Cheap Children’s Clothing, Twice: Beautiful Clothing Should Be Loved Again)

13. Play the Drugstore Game (The CVS Drugstore Game: 3 Items for $3.13The Drugstore Game: All this for $2.39!  Black Friday Shopping at CVS, I’m Published!  The Drugstore Game Returns, The Drugstore Game: Failure & Success, The Drugstore Game: Take 3, The Drugstore Game: Take 2, How NOT to play the Drugstore Game)

14. Pay Bills On-line (No Stamps!)

15. Create a Budget (Mvelopes: Online Envelope Budgeting, Our Monthly Budget)

16. Cash in Your Rewards (How I Made $222 in October)

17. Make Swagbucks Your Search Engine (How I Made $222 in October, Swagbucks Special Offer: How I Made $20 by Signing Up for eMusic, Earn 1000 Swagbucks with Netflix!)

18. Find FREE stuff (Freebie Friday!  What can I do with all these free magazines?  Shutterfly Holiday Cards House Party, Your Local Public Library, Use Those Freebies!)

19. DIY (A Pink Princess Party, Birthday Morning: Doorway Surprise, DIY Facial Cleanser, DIY Laundry Detergent, Watermelon Shark Attack!  A Painted Bus Stop Bench)

20. Be Resourceful (Keeping Cool When It’s 110 Degrees Outside, 9 Mini Home Improvements, How to Survive Moving In with Your Parents, How to Survive a Lay-Off, Cross-Country Air Travel on a Tight Budget, A Little Wood Glue Goes A Long Way, Sewing with Shirley)

21. Sell Your Used Items (Make Money Selling Your Used Books on Amazon.Com, How I Made $200 in August, The easiest (or at least the most amusing) $100 we ever made, How We Save on Big Ticket Items, Monkey See, Monkey Do)

22. Learn to Cut Hair Yourself (Free Haircuts for a Family of Four, How to Cut Your Husband’s Hair, How to Thin Your Toddler’s Bangs)

23. Decorate on a Dime (Repainting our Hallway, The Birch Tree Project: Part 1 and Part 2, Autumn Window Collage, Inexpensive Autumn Decor, 5 Inexpensive Ways to Create a Cozy Master Bedroom, 5 Inexpensive Ways I’ve Updated Our Bathroom, Decorating for Christmas on a Tight Budget, Frugal Decorating Tip: Display Seasonal Library Books, DIY Halloween Window Painting, How can I decorate my home inexpensively for autumn? How can I update my bathtub and shower?  Love Your Rental: Clean Up the Exterior, How can I get a good deal on window treatments?  How can I update my rental property inexpensively?  Redecorating Our Basement Apartment)

24. De-Clutter (De-Cluttering: Trash it, Sell it, or Donate it)

25. Swap (Peace.Love.Swap.)

26. Utilize Your Gifts and Abilities (How I Made $221 in September, The Cost of Substitute Teaching in California, Getting to the Wedding: Part 1 and Part 2)

27. Refinance Your Home (Refinancing? Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, and Part 4)

28. Reduce (Take the “Date Your Shampoo” Challenge!)

29. Reuse (Organizing with Ice Cream Tubs, Empty Plastic Canisters, Sort Recipes in Recycled Envelopes)

30. Recycle (How I Made $170 in One Month, 7 Tips for Turning Your Trash into Cash)

31. Stay Off the Computer (An UnPlugged Weekend)

32. Get Up Earlier (How Changing My Morning Changed My Whole Day, 30 Days of Praying for your Local High School, Frumps to Pumps Challenge)

33. Love Your Husband (5 Cheap Date Ideas for You and Your Spouse, An Ordinary Fairy Tale, 1,000 Day Honeymoon, 50 Ideas to Inspire Your Husband, 7 Love Letters in 7 Days, Praying for Your Husband)

34. Tithe (Tithing Through the Hard Times)

35.  Be Thankful!  Have an “abundance mentality” instead of a “scarcity mentality.”  A heart full of gratitude is always happier than a heart full of worries and complaints. (Do Not Forget The Things You Have Seen, Pruned to be More Fruitful, Paying Off Debt=Pain With A Purpose!  A Slice of Heaven, Home Sweet Home )

What suggestions would you add to my list?

Five Years of Frugal Halloweens

Today I thought it would be fun to take a look back at 5 years of frugal Halloweens.  Did you know that Americans spend $8 billion in Halloween holiday outlay each year, making it second only to Christmas?  That’s $80 per family on decorations, costumes, and candy!  Naomi was born in 2009, and we’ve been doing full-time youth ministry since 2007.  So we’ve never spent a lot of money (if any) on Halloween.  Now for a look back…

In 2009, Naomi was only 3 months old at Halloween.  We lived in Minnesota, so between her age and the cold weather, we opted to stay home on Halloween.  However, I did enjoy dressing Naomi up in some of the fun clothes we’d received at my baby shower in China!

Naomi 3 months

A year later we were living in my parents’ basement in Maryland for Halloween 2010.  Our friends Nathan and Jenn gave us a hand-me-down ballerina costume that Naomi wore with a turtleneck that we already owned.  Naomi had fun helping my Mom hand out Halloween candy.

Naomi 2010

In 2011, I had a Pinterest account for the first time.  I found this great idea for Oliver’s costume that people still remember!  We had just moved to California, and posed for photos in the backyard.  Naomi decided that she wanted to wear the same costume that she’s worn the year before.  You can read more about our “Frightfully Frugal Halloween” since by then I was a blogging fool!

Halloween 2011

Winter is rainy in California, and in 2012 the heavens opened up.  We took photos in our newly-painted kids’ bedroom, and then hung out inside at a local church’s Harvest Festival.  Naomi chose to wear the same costume for the 3rd year in a row.  Thankfully it was a 4T so she had plenty of room to grow into it!

Naomi Halloween 2012

I found Oliver’s costume at a Peace.Love.Swap. event, and was glad that his outfit kept him covered and warm in the torrential downpour.

Oliver Halloween 2012

This year the weather was gorgeous for Halloween.  Until the morning of Halloween I thought Naomi still might wear the same outfit for the fourth year in a row.  This would have been the last year it would still fit.  However, at the last minute she changed her mind and put on a different hand-me-down ballerina costume from her dress-up box.  I dressed Oliver as a cowboy using props from Brad’s “Prop Closet” (and Naomi’s boots), and Evelyn wore a hand-me-down Snow White costume and a crown that Naomi received for her birthday.

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This year Brad and I also got in on the Halloween action, and wore costumes.  We don’t dress in costume every year, but this year it was fun for all five of us to be in costumes!  Both of us made costumes from Brad’s “Prop Closet.”  I dressed as a cowboy to match Oliver, and Brad dressed as “Stan, Stan, the Stunt, Stunt Man.”  We went back to the same church’s Harvest Festival for the 3rd year in a row, where we enjoyed bounce houses, trunk-or-treating, indoor games, and cupcakes.

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So there you have it!  Five years of Halloweens, and we’ve only bought one pumpkin (for Oliver’s costume in 2011), we’ve never bought candy, we’ve never bought decorations, and we’ve never bought costumes.  It can be done!

What fun and frugal ways has your family found to celebrate Halloween on a tight budget?

(Today I’m linking up with “Works for Me Wednesday!“)

All Things Pumpkin

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Yesterday our family took our annual trip to the Pumpkin Farm (which has free admission!) where we enjoyed a petting zoo, hay bales, trampolines, slides, climbing, tractors, trains, and of course…pumpkins.

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As you can tell, the kids had a great time.  Naomi had SUCH a great time that she cried when it was time to go home!  We did manage to get the kids to hold still long enough to get our annual photo by the pumpkins, but they were pretty distracted by the train going by behind them.

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At the end of the day, we didn’t need to purchase any pumpkins from the pumpkin patch because we had 8 of them sitting on our porch already, thanks to our compost garden!

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Tonight Naomi, Oliver, and I carved pumpkins (AHEM…I carved, while they watched and told me what to do).  Their favorite parts were spooning out the insides, and lighting the candles.  After they went to bed, I steamed the pumpkin pulp for homemade pumpkin puree, and baked the seeds in the oven.  We’ve processed our pumpkins for the last three years, and we love eating all things pumpkin during the month of November!

What inexpensive Halloween traditions does your family enjoy?

(Today I’m linking up with “Works for Me Wednesday!“)

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 30 Transformed

30 Days of Prayer

This morning I got up at 8am, showered, nursed Evelyn, drank 2 cups of coffee, and then left the kids with Brad while I went for the last walk of my 30 days.  On the way out the door, Brad urged me to take my time and treat myself to something special at the coffee shop.

I walked quickly this morning, whistling “Rise and Shine” to myself.  Again I decided this was a good marching song.  I walked the whole way around the school property for the first time since the dog jumped on me on Day #13.  With only 3 days until Halloween, many houses are now decorated for the holiday.  I crunched through the bright leaves, thanking God for the past month of prayer.

As I finished walking and praying, and was almost to the coffee shop, I passed the house on the corner of our street.  I’d noticed the “For Rent” sign in the yard, but now 3 little dogs barked at me and the new tenant was raking leaves.  I greeted her and we talked about dogs, renting, moving, schools, and the neighborhood.  She said she has two high school age sons, so I invited them to our youth ministry Halloween Club tonight.  I also invited her to our church, and pointed out our pastor’s house nearby.  After a few minutes we parted ways, and I went to the coffee shop for a cup of hot chocolate with whipped cream.

Back at home, my Bible study leader called.  She asked how the 30 days had gone, and if I’d seen any results yet.  As I reflected on her question, I knew without a doubt that I had already seen results.  I met Donna & Ray, and Donna’s kids, all of whom work at the coffee shop.  We had Club in the coffee shop twice.  We had the entire freshmen football team over for dinner twice.  Brad took a huge group on a Work Crew weekend.  Amanda and Vickie started helping us drive kids to Club, Joanne lent us her car, Steven started helping with photography, Lodie offered to help babysit, and Darla offered to help with whatever she could.  I met Jennifer this morning, and spent other mornings talking to my neighbors Cedrick, Emily, Matt & Tara, or waving to Marisa & Juan.  I met the women in the school’s front office, helped Rosie in a pinch, and snapped Senior Photos for Jennifer.  We updated our phones to make my husband more accessible, and fine-tuned other aspects of how we do ministry.  Money for our ministry has turned up in some of the most unlikely places, from a woman who heard some of my story and handed me a $100 bill, to a Roseville pottery vase that we found in our garage and sold on eBay for $90.  A gas station donated a substantial amount of meat to our church, which then divided it up and gave us a bag.  Much of that meat went into the football team’s spaghetti sauce.  And I could go on.

It has often been said that “Prayer changes us, not God.”  Indeed, I think the greatest changes this month went on within my own heart.  I am a non-confrontational people-pleaser who spent two-thirds of my life being painfully shy and socially awkward.  When we faced difficulties, I retreated inward.  I stayed home, I was unhelpful, worried, fearful, resentful, and pessimistic.  Walking and praying got me out of the house and into our community.  As the unfamiliar became familiar, I began to see our school, our neighborhood, our neighbors, our students, and even my husband and children with new eyes.  A month of walking and praying has blessed my life in so many ways.  I am changed.

I hope that your life has been blessed by these last 30 days of prayer for your local high school.  If you joined with me in prayer for the last 30 days, I would love to hear some about what it meant to you, and what results you have seen in your own life!

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”  Romans 12:2

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 29 Grace for the Moment

30 Days of Prayer

This morning as I walked around the high school, the students were in the process of changing classes.  I passed 4 boys in black t-shirts using every expletive in their vocabulary to discuss what they would be wearing for Halloween this year.  A few moments later I passed 2 students behind a bush opposite the high school, smoking cigarettes.  As I crossed the intersection, a teacher strode by me in her high school logo t-shirt, growling into her walkie-talkie.  In front of the school a teacher near a gate said, “Hello!” and I observed 3 police cars around the school property.  I drove by the school a little while later as a fire drill was underway, so perhaps the police were on-call for the drill.

As I walked around the school, the song “Grace for the Moment” by Buddy Greene kept running through my head:

GRACE FOR THE MOMENT
lyrics by Tricia Walker & Buddy Greene
music by Buddy Greene

Grace for the moment, all that I need
Grace for the moment and faith to receive
The promises given to those who believe
Grace for the moment, all that I need.

When I fret over outcomes that I cannot see
It’s for certain I’ll not have the peace meant for me
But when with thanksgiving I just look to Him
He will answer me time and again with…

If I understand faith, it’s not counting on me
It’s the hope and assurance of what I can’t see
It’s the daily relying on Jesus to be
Providing more grace faithfully
Further proving His great love for me with…

It’s a beautiful song with a beautiful message.  The Lord’s prayer asks, “Give us this day our daily bread…”  (Matthew 6:9-13).  When Elijah went to live with the Widow of Zarephath, the Lord provided food every day (1 Kings 17:7-16).  When the Israelites were in the desert, the Lord provided manna six days a week (Exodus 16) until they ate the food of the Promised Land (Joshua 5:12).  As I walk and pray for our high school students and ministry, it’s hard not to worry about the future.  But God gives us just enough grace for the moment, just enough bread or manna for today.  We can have peace, hope, and assurance if we believe His promises.  We need to come to Him, and rely on Him daily to provide for our needs.

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(On a side note, I met Buddy Greene in person more than once, and my father had him play at our church retreat when we were kids.  We listened to his music often in the car, so meeting him was as close as we came to a celebrity as kids.  He is best-known for co-writing the song “Mary, Did You Know?” with Mark Lowry.)

30 Days of Praying for Your Local High School: Day 28 Seek & Find

30 Days of Prayer

Today Brad took Naomi with him to guitar practice at the church, and I took Oliver and Evelyn along for my walk around the high school.  About a block from my house as I pushed the stroller in front of me, with Oliver running behind me, I saw a young man riding his bike toward me and thought I recognized him.  I squinted at him for a moment, but then realized he was a stranger.  As he passed by me, he yelled out, “HEY BEAUTIFUL!”  I looked around, and seeing no one else, realized he must be referring to me.  With that auspicious beginning to our walk, we were off on our little adventure.

As we walked by the high school, a teenage boy wandered around outside his portable classroom, on the other side of the fence.  I asked him if was kicked out of class, and he said yes.  I asked what he’d done, and if he’d talked back to his teacher.  He said yes again.  He said his name was Andrew, and I told him that was Oliver’s middle name.  With that, we were on our way again.  In front of the high school, a man rode by on a bike and shouted, “Have a great day!”  As we crossed a street, I watched a man in business attire jump his bike off a curb as he rode behind his buddy.  We stopped by the coffee shop, where we greeted the owners who were watering their outdoor plants.  Finally, when we were almost home we passed our neighbor washing the windows of her bright yellow VW bug.  We chatted about the gorgeous weather, and the limited time left to enjoy it before the weather turns cold for winter.

I’ve got to admit, I’ve been looking forward to the end of this challenge.  I feel like I’ve really flopped at getting up in the morning, my walks have gotten shorter as the month wore on, blogging five days a week is time-consuming, and the more I walk the more distracted I seem to get.  But then there are days like today when I’m reminded that good things are happening here, now, because of my decision to walk and pray.  I have formed new relationships, I’m getting exercise, I’m meeting my neighbors, I’m more interested in my husband’s work, and I’m less afraid of walking in my neighborhood.

If you’re doing this challenge with me, or working on some other goals at this time, I encourage you not to give up.  You may be failing in many ways, but you are also succeeding in many ways.  If you write down your goals and work on them just a little bit each day, you will see improvement over time if you stick with it.

“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”  Jeremiah 29:13

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